Do you sometimes do things you don't want to do because of your friends? Maybe your friends get you to do something good, like work out. Or maybe they get you to do something that's not so good, like skip class. Friends can have a lot of power—but only if you let them.
Pressure vs. Influence—What's the Difference?
If your friends coax you into doing something you don't want to do because of their words or actions, that's peer pressure.
If you convince yourself to do something because you think your friends want you to, or you think it will make you part of the group, that's peer influence. You friends don't push you—you push yourself.
With your group, write a skit that depicts peer influence or peer pressure. You may choose from one of the following general themes.
Themes
- tobacco and nicotine use
- lying
- cheating
- bullying
- gossiping
- betraying
When you write your skit, keep in mind some of the key elements of peer pressure or influence.
Key elements
- the desire to be liked by others
- the desire to be accepted by a particular group
- the desire to exhibit behavior that is similar to others'
- the embarrassment of being ridiculed for not doing something
- the pain of feeling excluded
- the need to sort out one's choices
- the need to understand the consequences of each choice
- the price we sometimes pay for making what we believe to be unpopular choices
Planning Your Skit
With your group, brainstorm ideas before you start your skit. You should prepare two endings—one in which the character gives in, and one in which the character withstands the pressure or influence.
Topic:
Characters:
Situation:
Choices:
Possible consequences:
Resolution #1 (character gives in):
Resolution #2 (character withstands pressure or influence):
Final Steps
Now, talk with your group to finalize the details of your skit. Then, act it out for the class. Have fun!